Pretty Sad But Somehow Enlightening
Two men, both seriously ill, occupied the same hospital room. One man was allowed to
sit up in his bed for an hour each afternoon to help drain the fluid from his lungs.
His bed was next to the room's only window. The other man had to spend all his time
flat on his back. The men talked for hours on end. They spoke of their wives
and families, their homes, their jobs, their involvement in the military service, where
they had been on vacation. And every afternoon when the man in the bed by the window
could sit up, he would pass the time by describing to his roommate all the things he could
see outside the window.
The man in the other bed began to live for those one-hour periods where his world would be
broadened and enlivened by all the activity and color of the world outside. The
window overlooked a park with a lovely lake. Ducks and swans played on the water while
children sailed their model boats. Young lovers walked arm in arm amidst flowers of every
color of the rainbow. Grand old trees graced the landscape, and a fine view of the city
skyline could be seen in the distance.
As the man by the window described all this in exquisite detail, the man on the other side
of the room would close his eyes and imagine the picturesque scene. One warm
afternoon the man by the window described a parade passing by. Although the other
man couldn't hear the band he could see it in his mind's eye as the gentleman by the
window portrayed it with descriptive words.
Then unexpectedly, a sinister thought entered his mind. Why should the other man
alone experience all the pleasures of seeing everything while he himself never got to see
anything? It didn't seem fair. At first thought the man felt ashamed.
But as the days passed and he missed seeing more sights, his envy eroded into resentment
and soon turned him sour. He began to brood and he found himself unable to sleep. He
should be by that window -- that thought, and only that thought now controlled his life.
Late one night as he lay staring at the ceiling, the man by the window began to
cough. He was choking on the fluid in his lungs. The other man watched in the
dimly lit room as the struggling man by the window groped for the button to call for
help. Listening from across the room he never moved, never pushed his own
button which would have brought the nurse running in. In less than five minutes the
coughing and choking stopped, along with that the sound of breathing.
Now there was only silence-deathly silence. The following morning the day nurse
arrived to bring water for their baths. When she found the lifeless body of the man
by the window, she was saddened and called the hospital attendants to take it away.
As soon as it seemed appropriate, the other man asked if he could be moved next to the
window. The nurse was happy to make the switch, and after making sure he was
comfortable, she left him alone.
Slowly, painfully, he propped himself up on one elbow to take his first look at the world
outside. Finally, he would have the joy of seeing it all himself. He strained to
slowly turn to look out the window beside the bed. It faced a blank wall.
The man asked the nurse what could have compelled his deceased roommate since he had
described such wonderful things outside this window. The nurse responded that the
man was blind and could not even see the wall. She said, "Perhaps he just
wanted to encourage you."
Epilogue. . . .
You can interpret the story in any way you like. But one moral stands out:
There is tremendous happiness in making others happy, despite our own
situations. Shared grief is half the sorrow, but happiness when shared, is doubled.
If you want to feel rich, just count all of the things you have that money can't buy.
Author Unknown
Contributor: Hilary Lane